Attract a girlfriend or boyfriend fast ! Would you like to attract true love would you like to manifest your soulmate? Well, if you can say these 13 words that I'm about to share with you, it's all going to work out.
I thought I was destined to be alone. The person I was in love with left me many years ago and I started saying these 13 words and out of absolutely nowhere, I attracted my soulmate and now my wife Ashley and my life has never been better. It's increased my health, my wealth, my happiness, my growth as a person and I feel so lucky that I found her and I found her by saying these 13 words.
So what happens all the time is we don't realize that there are certain words we are saying that are blocking our soulmate. I didn't know that until I stumbled across these words. Now when you say them, just a warning, it's going to be very different. It might shake your beliefs, but it's going to allow you to attract love and let love into your life.
Before i met my wife and soul mate, I was in love with another girl. She left me out of nowhere and I started saying things like, "I can't believe that she would do this". And I started saying things like, I'll never find someone better. All of that is not the energy of love. The reality is she liked someone more and she left. And that's the end of the story. But I attached to a bunch of thought processes that were actually keeping me away from attracting love into my life.
Then I had this big shift and the shift came when like it was almost like God put the words inside of me. When they did come through me, Oh my gosh, I felt good and it didn't take very much longer for me to finally attract someone a million times better for me because I didn't realize that there was all these problems in the relationship of the woman that broke up with me. I wanted to be with someone so bad that it wasn't really love. It was need.
And that's why it was destined for failure. So I said these words, "I don't need someone else to complete me. Happiness is an inside job." 13 words. I realized I'm not even happy and I'm trying to fill my void by trying to get this person back. I was trying to force the relationship to work even though it clearly wasn't right. I didn't want to be alone. So I went on this rampage of happiness and I had this big shift in my life.
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I realized my health was not where I wanted it to be anymore. I had worked so hard on writing my first books and I had basically left my health aside. I also wasn't where I wanted to be in my career at all. I started focusing on these things and I said, you know what?
What I need to do is focus on loving myself and my life so much that the right person through the laws of the universe will come up that totally matches that energy. It will just happen and I'm letting go of trying to figure it out. I'm not going to go on 9 million different dates. I'm not going to try to figure it out because as soon as I'm trying to get love, I'm subconsciously in a place of need. So even the relationships that I attract are not going to be the right ones.
I don't need someone else to complete me. My wife and I know that we both know that we don't need the other person to complete us. In fact, when we do, it's generally when we get in arguments because one of us gets needy and then we're not filling the other person's expectations and it causes resentment, frustration or conflict.
Happiness is an inside job and when you get two people in a relationship that know that and are living that or practicing it, guess what? Everything starts getting better. But you have to say these words,
"I don't need someone else to complete me. Happiness is an inside job"
I really like this girl in high school. She always had boyfriends though! Like every few weeks she had a new boyfriend. why did they not work out? Well, talking to her many years later, she was actually depressed. She was very unhappy all throughout high school. So she needed a relationship because it was how she was trying to fill that void either with sex, or just attention or just stimulation of always having someone around. She didn't know that at the time.
The relationship can't work when you're in that energy. It just can't. And she finally realized it and she went to work on herself. She was like, what do I really want to be happy? What would happen if I stop trying to just date someone and I focused on that happiness that someone else can't complete me if I finally realize that and that happiness is an inside job. And she said she had the best six months of her life and then out of nowhere, someone just shows up.
That's what happened with Ashley, my wife! She showed up out of nowhere when I was so deeply loving myself first. You don't need to worry about all those mental details. If it's the right person, it's gonna all work out. You can have the worst pickup line in the world. It doesn't matter.
Imagine that you'll never meet anyone. How would you live your life? I'm not saying you're not going to meet someone. Just for the sake of finding your independence, how would you live your life? That's what I did. After that relationship failed and I said, okay, so what would my perfect day be like? Write all these things down! Write down who you would be if you weren't worried about finding a partner.
Happiness is an inside job. it takes courage to do that. It takes courage to maybe on a Friday or Saturday night when you really want to be around somebody and have a body to cosey up with. It takes courage to stay home and read a personal development book or work on your side business or meditate or journal or go to the gym.
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That's the energy that starts to bring the right person in your life. But it means you have to let go of the good to make space for the great. And when you do that, you start to open the door for the right person to come into your life.
Thanks so much for tuning in! Be well.
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Jake Ducey is a two-time published author with Penguin/Random-House (The Purpose Principles and Profit From Happiness), a leading speaker for his generation having been featured in TEDx Youth, hired by mega organizations such as Nielsen and Accenture, and a leader who has already inspired countless thousands of young people to seek meaningful career success and to make a difference in the world.