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Dangerous Thing That Blocks You From Attracting Your Soulmate


What is the number one dangerous thing that blocks you from attracting your soulmate? This is Jake Ducey and when I learned this thing, I attracted my soulmate into my life. My life has never been better. I feel happier, healthier, and more in love. My business has grown more than ever before and it's all been a product of identifying this one thing so my soulmate can come into my life and amplify my life.

OK, so here it is. Don't place your responsibility of happiness on somebody else. Don't place the responsibility of you being happy on somebody else. Prove to yourself that you can be as happy, healthy, and fulfilled as you can possibly be on your own.

Say to yourself... "I am deciding in this moment that I do not need a soul mate or a romantic relationship for me to feel whole".

What we're told is the idea that when two people come together in union, whether that's a wedding or just a commitment to one another, what we hear is that it's two halves that make a whole. They become one.

And what I learned the hard way is that if you're dependent on somebody else to make you happy, now somebody else can make you feel good, somebody else can make you feel appreciated, someone else can make you feel pleasured, but nobody else can make you feel truly happy.

And what happens is we want a soul mate. We want a romantic relationship really, really, really, really, really, really, really bad. And we come from a place of, I need this thing for my life to be whole. If I don't fall in love, what's the purpose of my life? How am I going to be fulfilled? If I don't get to have a family or if I don't get to fall in love, if I don't have to get to truly meet my soulmate, what's the point?

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And when you come from that energy, even if you attract somebody into your life, it's going to be what I call a recyclable relationship. A recyclable relationship is when two halves come together that aren't totally whole and they believe the other person is what they need to become whole. And when that happens, the relationship is built upon dependency and need, so it becomes recyclable.

And now maybe you can think of a time in your own life or somebody you might know that's constantly recycling relationships, constantly recycling them. Maybe you could think of somebody that every year, every six months, every three months, every two years, there's a new relationship. And what happens is we're coming from a place of you need to fulfill me, but when you come from a place of you need to fulfill me, it's not based off of truth.

The truth is only I can fulfill myself and when I can feel myself and I live a purposeful life and I attract you as my romantic partner into my life, and you're coming from that premise to that I cannot fulfill you, you can only fulfill yourself, you're going to lead your own purposeful life and will come together in a sacred union.

It amplifies our lives, but when we come from, I need you to fulfill me, what happens is it's a truth that can never be met. It's an expectation that is impossible to meet. Therefore, the relationship is built to fail because at some point they won't make you happy the way that you expect them to make you happy.

And when that happens, emotions aren't met, needs are met, and the relationship falls apart, and then we recycle it and we find another person who can do it. Well, you know, I think the problem was last time they didn't like yoga as much as me. They weren't as fit as me. They came from a different part of the world and we weren't exactly on the same page. They are at a different age than me.

And we come up with all of these reasons why that relationship didn't work, but it's always predicated upon something other than the internal truth.

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And the internal truth is anything in life, it doesn't matter if it's a soulmate, anything in life that you think you need for you to be fulfilled, it will never fulfill you and it will almost always lead to destruction.

Now you see that all the time in relationships outside of romance. You see that with people that believe that fame or success or money will fulfill them. It never does, but when you come from a place of wholeness and you don't see validation out of the success being more money, you're able to enjoy it, but it never has control over you.

So what I invite you to consider is to ask yourself this question... "How can I take responsibility for my happiness? How can I live my purpose now? How ,even if I don't attract my soul mate in this lifetime, how can I live my purposeful life?"

And what happens is when you ask yourself that question and you start to live that out, you start to step into your true self. When you step in and live from your true self, you attract a true partnership, but you can't attract that true partnership unless you're first walking and living from your authentic self. Because otherwise, you attract inauthentic relationships that never last.

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When I really want to attract my soul mate, I had a relationship before my current one that didn't work out and it was built along the premises that I discuss here. That's how we got the term recyclable relationships. After that failed I asked myself... "How can I create the happiest, best life for myself"? A I clearly defined my vision of doing this work and getting as healthy and well as I could and I said, "If I meet someone, that's great. If I don't, that's great too, but I need to build a life that I'm proud of."

Because that's how I'll be fulfilled. Someone else loving me and giving me attention and validation will never give me the fulfillment that building a life I'm proud of will. I want to know my life meant something and somebody else can't give that to me.

When you understand that, that somebody else can't give that to you, and you take the necessary steps to build a life you're proud of, your filled with, you're excited about, and it's in alignment with your true self, your highest values, your soul's mission, your purpose in life. The result of that is you attract people that are on that same path or desire to be on that same path, and then the two of you can work together to create something even more amazing.

So what I invite you to consider is that and how can you live from that place in your life? I'm inviting you to consider and let go of is thinking that somebody else is responsible for your happiness.

I invite you to consider dropping the idea that two halves are gonna come together and make a whole. No two wholes are going to come together and rock the freaking world, but the first step is for me to live wholly, fully in my true self, in my greatest power, in my greatest purpose, and take the necessary steps to build the life that I'm proud of. When I do that, I know that I'm going to meet the perfect people that I'm destined to meet, but I need to walk my true path and that's what I invite you to consider.

I want you to train your subconscious mind for success, for abundance, for prosperity. If you're in fear and doubt and worry about... what if I try to build a life I'm proud of and it doesn't work out? That's all subconscious patterning and you can erase and retrain that for success, abundance and prosperity.

If you've got someone you're dating, share this video with them. Talk about it. How can you guys amplify each other's true self so that you can both step more fully into your power and amplify one another's lives by first seeking and taking responsibility for your highest levels of happiness ever possible? 

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About the author

Jake Ducey is a two-time published author with Penguin/Random-House (The Purpose Principles and Profit From Happiness), a leading speaker for his generation having been featured in TEDx Youth, hired by mega organizations such as Nielsen and Accenture, and a leader who has already inspired countless thousands of young people to seek meaningful career success and to make a difference in the world.

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