Why Am I Not Manifesting? You might be wondering, Jake, why I am not manifesting. Why are the things that I want not coming into my life yet? And there are three quick and easy ways to discover why you weren't manifesting and make that very easy shift to start attracting what you want into your life a lot quicker, faster, and easier. So I'm going to share with you those quick and easy things to do. There are just three of them when you are not manifesting. My name is Jake, with jakeducey.com. So make sure you smash the like button on this side or this side over there, and let's dive right into this. If this sounds interesting, read here to learn more - Why Is The Law Of Attraction Not Working.
Focus On The Opposite Of What You Want
Number one is focused on the opposite of what you want. There are a lot of people that know what it is that they want; they're consciously aware that they want romance; they want a boyfriend or girlfriend or a husband or wife; they want this certain job. Maybe they want money; maybe they want something consciously, but their habitual perception is always focused on the fact that it's not there. We get so used to having our thoughts controlled by what we see, but sometimes what you see is not what you want. There is a pattern to having your perception and thoughts controlled by what you see, which I do not have.
So what you want really ends up being two things: what you want in the absence of it, like a relationship and romance, but you could be focused always on the fact there are no good guys or how your ex crossed you and you're still mad about it, upset about it, or heartbroken and angry at them. Maybe they have somebody new, but you just don't really wish well upon it; maybe you haven't found the right woman yet, and you're just like a man. It's like there are just not that many cool women anymore; you know, things change; I remember the days when, and you could have that type of perception about the absence of love. You could do the same thing with money. You could want money but always be focused on the fact that it's not there. Jake, it's not working yet, and CJ isn't either. See, Jake is not working yet, you know, and I think it's the rich people who took all the money, and I just don't have the right talent.
The Perception Of Reality Is Controlled By The Present Circumstances Of Our Lives
So you see what I'm saying here, it's very easy; it's an unconscious habit; we don't know what's happening, and it feels normal what normal people do; what ordinary people do is their thoughts and their stories, and their perception of reality is controlled by the present circumstances of their lives. So you can predict their future; it's going to be pretty much the same as it is now because your thoughts create your future, but if your thoughts are controlled by the present and current reality, then you will continue to recreate a similar reality for yourself, and that's what the average person does; that's what the ordinary person does; that's what most of us do.
What you want is two things. What you want is the absence of it, and that's why it's said in the bible that those that have more will be given, because if you're in the consciousness of already being grateful for the money, already being grateful that your dream job is out there, already being grateful that your soulmate is here in your life, amazing, and you have so much to be grateful for that you're blessed beyond measure, those that have more will be given, and that's how you attract what you want: when you're consciously focused upon the presence of it in your life.
Everything Is Energy, And Energy Is Never Created Or Destroyed
I invite you to think about this: Everything you want already exists. Everything is energy, and energy is never created or destroyed, so everything you want already exists. You just must become aware of it, be conscious of it, and be focused on the infinite and unlimited nature of the universe and how what you want already exists. When you do this, it opens up the floodgates. So comment down below what I want; it already exists, and remember that everything is two things. What you want is two things. the presence of it or the absence of it in your life. The next reason that you might not be manifesting is because of subconscious childhood associations.
So let's say your parents didn't have money, and they thought rich people ruined the world. Let's say that your mom or your dad had that old saying life's a b-i-t-c-h and then you died, and so you kind of just thought life was painful. Maybe your parents got divorced, and your dad always used to save you. You know, son or daughter, that love is pain, and love is hard, and you know it's hard. It's not sure if true love exists, and it's painful, but you know that's life. You get this association that is life.
Learn By Observing
So if you are wondering "Why am I not manifesting?" it's not an absolute truth, but we inherit the truths of other people, most notably the adults around us when we're younger, and we don't realize we have it because it's a subconscious program, and so the simplest way to understand is what did your parents teach you about money? And I'm not just talking about teaching consciously. I'm saying what you observed from them because, of course, that's where children learn. They observe what's happening, take it in like a sponge, and then mirror that in their life patterns.
So what did you observe about money? What did you learn about love and relationships? Did you learn to argue and then divorce when you are sick of it and no one wants to apologize? What did you learn? Did you learn that love is a pain that you move through and then go, "Well, what do I want?” Well, I want an amazing job, an amazing business, lots of money, love, romance, and adventure. Whatever it is you want, and then you reverse it and say, "Well, what did I observe?"
Your Limiting Beliefs Are Blocking You From Getting What You Want
What was I taught by my parents and the adults in the household that I grew up in? What did I observe? What did I learn? What I was taught about these specific things, and what you'll uncover, is that you'll actually become aware of your deepest subconscious limiting beliefs that are blocking you from getting what you want in the subject of money, in the subject of success, in the subject of romance, and in the subject of confidence, self-worth, happiness, and mental health. You can discover it all and then free yourself from it.
Reprogram And Retrain Your Brain
I always talk about reprogramming your subconscious. So I have the actual program that I made. I invented basically a technology for myself to retrain my brain because we now know from neuroscience something called Hebb's law, which says that nerve cells that fire together wire together. So the fancy way to just say that your brain, the cells in your brain, are all wired together based off of the habitual ways that you think and feel, and so our brain gets wired during our childhood by the environment, the parents, and everything that we see here around us, and you can actually reprogram and retrain your brain. It's called neuroplasticity, and it's a pretty cool thing.
Neuroplasticity basically means you can retrain and rewire your brain. So I invented this for myself. It was amazing. You can use a free demo for it now that over a quarter million people from all over the world have used it, and it's just designed to help build new neural connections to train your brain for what you want. Your brain's been programmed to block what you want. Your brain's been programmed to be average. Your brain has been trained to recreate this normal, current reality, and if you can rewire it, you can move into your second mind, your upgraded mind.
Rewire Your Brain To Achieve What You Truly Want In Life
I have a free demo of my neural programmer that you can use to retrain your brain for what you really want in life, and it's right there down below. It's in the description in the comments; it's secondmind.com, and you can demo it for free to turn your brain into a magnet for what you want, so comment down below. “Retrain your brain.” I have a feeling something great is headed your way today, and I'm sending you lots of good vibes before you head off. Go like this real quick. Go like this. I was just telling my wife the other day, because we have a 10-week-old baby, that it's interesting to see how one of the first things she learned to do was smile. I mean, I guess she didn't learn a thing; she knew how to do it. And I was saying how interesting it is that a human being learns to do things from the time they're basically alive.
One of the first things they're programmed to know how to do is smile. It's just a natural, innate thing, and a lot of times we get calloused to life by habit, and as we get older, we stop doing it, and babies just sit there and do it for no reason. So go with this smile for no reason other than the fact that you're alive today. Hold it for a few seconds until you feel that shift in your brain, your nervous system, and your emotions in your mind and your spirit. Have a great day, and I'll see you next time.