Here are three dangerous words that are blocking you from easily creating the life that you want.
You know, it can actually be easy to create the life that you want. It doesn't need to be hard, but there's three words that our culture has programmed us to say that you're definitely saying unconsciously or consciously. If you're aware of them, then you can immediately eliminate them and bring ease into your life.
Struggle is life. Life's a bitch. Life is hard. No pain, no gain. Have you ever heard one of those before?
We're taught that you can't get a gain in life without pain and that life's a bitch and then you're going to die and life is hard. We're taught all of these things. So unconsciously, there's something called the expectancy phrase. The expectancy phrase is quite literally that whatever phrases you're expecting, you see them in your life.
What happens is, our culture has always told us these things. Life is hard. Life is a struggle. No pain, no gain. We actually begin to believe that you can't learn new things or experience good things without life being really hard.
I want to invite you to consider something today. Make your intention for life to be ease today. You can learn things from love. You can learn things from ease. You can learn things by stuff coming to easily.
It doesn't need to be hard, and what happens is a lot of people think that you gain experience and wisdom just through pain and struggle and that you have to struggle to get what you want. Therefore, what happens is unconsciously, they want to get what they truly desire out of life so they get addicted to struggle unconsciously or addicted to pain unconsciously and you'll see that where people have wanted to attract more money for years, but they're always in the same place. It's still hard and it was hard five years ago when it's just as hard this year. They still want more money but they still have pain and they don't know why it is.
It's because very deeply, unconsciously we're programmed that way. The same is so with love. People really want love, but every relationship they get in, something bad happens. It ends in a blow up. They cheat on them or the person cheats on them. There's some self sabotage. It turns out to be awful and they keep just going through relationships, going through relationships over and over.
I'm sure you can relate to that. You either have experienced that or someone you know or you've seen it.
Where what happens is, we get in a cyclical nature where it's almost like the metaphor of the hamster on the wheel and the carrot is dangling in front.
The carrot is what you want, but it's always out of reach because I've got to keep struggling a little bit more. I've got to keep struggling a little bit more.
Here's what I invite you to start saying, now you can replace what you want in this or whatever your intention that you want to manifest or create is and they might go something like this:
I am grateful now that I attract money easily and quickly."
If it's not money, it might be love.
I'm so grateful that I easily attract my soulmate quickly. I'm so grateful that I easily.."
Whatever it is, use the word easily and poke what you want to attract into your affirmation. Put that on a three by five card. Carry that with you. Start saying that hundreds of times a day. Put it on a mirror in front of you. It's to train yourself for ease.
You know, one thing that I started doing, is when I started really looking at human psychology more and more, I noticed that we're program for struggle and to believe that struggle is somehow holy and righteous. We create our own unnecessary struggle to prove to ourselves that we're righteous and holy on an unconscious level because we're always told that. That's somehow righteous and that somehow holy, you need a struggle in life's a bitch and then you die and Duh, Duh, Duh, Duh Duh, Duh.
What I started doing is programming myself for ease, I started telling myself all the time that life is easy.
I created a success hypnosis and you can check it out. It's Jakeshypnosis.com. It's free. You can use it and if you'll see in the actual hypnosis, it's all about ease. I started training myself to attract things easily in my life.
Every affirmation I ever do has the word easily and quickly in it.
I'm so grateful that large sums of money come to me quickly and easily." "I'm so grateful that perfect health is an easy and natural state for me." "I'm so grateful that I attract the perfect resources for this project quickly and easily."
I always use the word easily because I'm training myself for that and you've got to understand that your life is a product of your subconscious thought patterns and most people's are programmed for struggle.
Have you ever met someone? Everything they do is hard. Everything they do is hard. Why? Because they believe on some level that life is hard and we hear that all the time.
Well, life is hard. Just grinding away. Just you know, no pain, no gain."
What if you could have all the gains and you want without pain? What if you can have all the gains that you wanted in life without pain? Give it a try. Take whatever you want, turn it into an affirmation and use the word easily.
Comment down below your affirmation with the word ease in it. Comment down below the word easily with your affirmation and start saying it.
And make sure you use my free success hypnosis, Jakeshypnosis.com. Have an absolutely beautiful day and remember... that there is pain in life - sometimes - but it doesn't need to be very often or at all.
You could have a whole year where it's just like you're in a total bliss and ecstasy and joy. You don't need pain and struggle in order to get what you want. Start using the words ease more and more frequently and you'll see that you've trained your brain to attract things into your life, easily.
Also, If you haven't yet, make sure you check out The Second Mind. It's our Neuro Programmer, designed to rewire the brain so that you can easily attract what you want into your life. It's a piece of software that we created and you can demo it for free at www.thesecondmind.com
Have a beautiful day. Comment down below... "Life is easy." Hashtag "Life is easy. Life is easy, life is easy. Life is easy." Get that drilled into your brain. "Money comes easily." "Love comes easily.
Get it drilled into your brain that life is easy. Things come to you easy and be prepared for whatever comes your way, but remember, train your mind for ease, not for unnecessary struggle.
Jake Ducey is a two-time published author with Penguin/Random-House (The Purpose Principles and Profit From Happiness), a leading speaker for his generation having been featured in TEDx Youth, hired by mega organizations such as Nielsen and Accenture, and a leader who has already inspired countless thousands of young people to seek meaningful career success and to make a difference in the world.