Do you want to attract your soulmate or a dream romantic relationship into your life? Well there's three things that you absolutely have to give up. And when you do, that perfect relationship will fall right into your lap. It happened to me with my soul mate, and my dream relationship it came out of absolutely nowhere.
But not until I gave up these three things. So you have to watch this video. This is Jake Ducey with JakeDucey.com and let's dive right into it.
You're probably not aware but there are three words that you might be using that are actually blocking what you want from showing up in your life. block law of attraction
And when you get a grasp on these words you're energy is going to change, the Law of Attraction attraction will start to work with you and the things that you want will show up in your life.
Hang with me. I'll show you those three words. I'm Jake Ducey from JakeDucey.com. Now let's lock into those three words that are stopping you from using the law of attraction towards what you want.
Am I in a place of need?
If you need a romantic partner or a soul mate, you're probably not gonna get the one that you really want. Needy equals creepy. But in energy terms, because we got to understand, right, we're talking about the law of attraction on this channel. And the law of attraction is a secondary law to the law of vibration.
The law of vibration is telling you that everything that you think is solid is actually energy. If you have a powerful enough microscope and you look at the wall, or you look at the camera, or you look at my body, or you look at anything in the physical world, it is pure energy. That's all it is. And when you think about what emotion is, emotion is energy in motion.
So your emotional state is your energy in motion. And your energy dictates what you attract into your life. Like attracts like, but only first when the energy is giving off a clear signal. When you're projecting a clear vibrational pattern.
So what is the vibrational pattern of need? It's not a very good vibrational pattern if you're trying to attract good things into your life, right? So think about that.
It wasn't until I didn't need a relationship anymore that I met my soul mate. Because before I was in a relationship that I wanted I was like "This is it. This is amazing. This is gonna be my soul mate. Da da da da da". And then it didn't work out. She left on to the other side of the world with another guy, and I was, like, I was super bummed. But I was still trying to make that relationship work even though it failed.
I was in a place of need. I needed this thing to work out. And it wasn't until I finally went through those feelings and then I was like "Okay I don't need a relationship, like, I've got a cool life. I've got big dreams. Let me pursue my dreams. Let me get as healthy as I can, as happy as I can and we'll see what the hell shows up in my life".
Wayne Dyer talks about in the last book that he wrote "I Can See Clearly Now", he says that success for him, in for the most part in his life, was putting together the pieces that life left for him. And I think that's partially how you find your soulmate.
You have to be in this place where you become the person that you want to attract. And you see people all the time wanting to attract the person that's got it all figured out. Maybe you know they've got an exciting career, or they know who they are, they're happy, or they have their purpose. That's what they want out of their partner. But they're not living that in their own life.
And it wasn't until I stepped into fully to the life that I wanted to create, and I said "I'll be happy no matter what happens", that I attracted it. So when I did that my energy shifted, right? I went from a place of need, and attracting that energy of need.
When you're in a place of need, you detract and create dependent relationships - dependent, right? And those are unhealthy. It's where I depend on this person for my sense of self-worth, or money, for anything. It can be a plethora of reasons. But it's a dependent relationship and it's not innately fulfilling.
They say you know when two people come together you create a whole. It's not true. You need to full people, and the result of that is you create. And that's where a power couple comes from.
And so ask yourself, if you need a relationship right now ask yourself, is that true? And if it is, you're blocking it from coming and that's okay. But I'm here to let you know.
Why do I need that Relationship?
And so the next question is - why do I need that relationship? And then usually what that comes down to is. Like maybe I'm not that happy with my career. Maybe I feel really overweight. Maybe I feel very unhealthy. Maybe I feel unfulfilled with my life. There can be so many reasons that can lead to us feeling unhappy.
And instead of doing those things, instead of going after your dream career, or getting in a regular exercise regimen, or getting healthier, making amends with past relationships - instead of addressing these areas of our life, we seek a relationship to fill that void within ourselves.
But when you're coming from lack you can't attract the relationship that's truly meant for you. So my question to you is - what holes are left still unfilled in your life?
You know we're all work in progress right? We're all, I am, you are, we all are. We all have things we're always gonna have to work on. But what points out to you, right?
And when I reflected on that, when my relationship had failed, what pointed out to me is - I was half-assed in my career. I actually was in the worst health I've been in my entire life. I was having a lot of muscle spasms. And all of these things were happening because I had stopped. I was somebody who was in the gym six seven days a week, as an athlete my whole life. I quit exercising. My muscular structure was getting weaker. I just didn't feel like myself, and I needed something.
So when you decide that you're going to be happy anyways, you create the space for it to come into your life.
Trying to find them
Trying to find them doesn't need that much explanation. But if you're trying desperately in order to find them, the chances are you'll never find them. You'll only find desperation, because like attracts like.
And so it doesn't mean that you quit looking, and you lock yourself in your closet until somebody knocks on your door, and it's your soulmate or something. But it's noticing your energy and noticing the emotional state you're in, like am I feeling that? I need to go find this. And what you find a lot of times is people really need to find it. So they spend two, three, four nights out a week at bar or whatever, dancing all the time and they're not getting anything done. Drinking all the time. And they're out trying, because they want to meet the, you know, the romantic relationship.
But the result of that is maybe their happiness in their personal life is suffering. Maybe their social life is great, but that's a small aspect of actual, and maybe there they haven't made the career change they need to make then, and made the dietary or health shifts they need to make. And they're just out there looking.
So you have to be able to give that up to attract it and say "I will be a happy person whether or not I find my soulmate". And the result of that is you're gonna be alarmingly attractive when you do meet the right types of people. Why? Because you're content. You don't need it.
And that's why a lot of times people think that they need to play games and dating worlds where they pretend that they're not interested. Why? Because unconsciously the other person's brain is attracted to this thing that doesn't that doesn't need them. So then you become attractive. That's why they try to give you that silly advice like - pretend you're not interested. That's why because they think the other person will be interested because you're not interested.
So if you obsessively need a relationship, what do you think is gonna happen? You're gonna push people away unconsciously.
Stop saying that there's no good guys/girls out there.
Stop saying that there's no good guys out there. Stop saying that there's no good girls out there. You hear that one all the time. There's no good guys. There's no good girls. It's a No. First of all, you're probably looking the wrong places.
Realistically second of all, we probably have not addressed certain areas of our personal life that need healing or resolution or transformation in order to create the space for our ideal relationships to show up.
So notice if you or someone you know says there's no good guys or there's no good girls out there, there are. It's amazing. There's millions and billions. There's so many people in the world. Our consciousness is not in a position to attract that into our lives.
It's not the situations that you go through but the meaning that you give to them.
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So this is Jake Ducey with JakeDucey.com - Three things you gotta give up to attract your soulmate into your life. Download my free success hypnosis.
There's sixty five thousand thoughts that a person has in a day, and psychologists say 95% of them are subconscious. They're unconscious. They're habitual pattern, and 70% of them are negative and redundant. Meaning that we have the same negative redundant thoughts over and over. So I made this hypnosis to reprogram you automatically to attract success in your life. So download that below and I'll see you on the next video thank you for watching.
Jake Ducey is a two-time published author with Penguin/Random-House (The Purpose Principles and Profit From Happiness), a leading speaker for his generation having been featured in TEDx Youth, hired by mega organizations such as Nielsen and Accenture, and a leader who has already inspired countless thousands of young people to seek meaningful career success and to make a difference in the world.
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