There are signs that someone has bad intentions, and these are the dark signs God will show you. I wish I had known this earlier because it would have saved me a lot of time and energy with romantic relationships. friendships and business relationships. Shocking Signs That Someone Is Thinking About You is quite interesting to think about. It might be romance. It might be a friendship or a business partnership. God is trying to give you signs that someone has bad intentions or that someone isn't who you're supposed to be with or be around, and God will give you these five signs to try to help you.
So if you're seeing one of these, it's a warning sign that God is trying to speak to you, and it's something that you should look into a little bit more. So if you're new here or if you're a returner, I just want to thank you for watching today's video. If you haven't yet, I have a free success hypnosis that I started using like 10 years ago to reprogram my subconscious mind. I just listened to it every night or in the morning to reprogram my mind, and it changed my life forever. You can check it out for free in the description and pin it in the comments right there down below. Let's dive right into this video.
Constant Drama Is The First Sign That Someone Has Bad Intentions
The first sign is constant drama. If the person that you're around is in constant drama, it is a sign from God that this is not where you're supposed to be. This is not the right fit right there. There's always some ups and downs, hiccups, and whatever in relationships, but there's a difference between constant drama and here's the thing, a lot of people are unconsciously addicted to drama. It puts their nervous system into fight or flight mode and it makes them feel alive. It releases some serotonin. It releases some dopamine. They've been programmed by their upbringing, and you know, 50 percent of parents get divorced.
There are all types of domestic disputes and as children we inherit them all, and it's one thing in relationships to grow together, right? it could be a business relationship and you're learning how to work with someone how to communicate right there's always hiccups it could be romance we're learning how to live with someone how to truly be our best version of yourself with someone and there's gonna be hiccups but constant drama that shows up time and time .
It's always something it doesn't matter the blow up on this there's this thing. It could be a little thing it could be a big thing sometimes it is a big thing and they make it a really big thing and sometimes it's a little thing and they make it a big thing but it's constant drama and the only way to free yourself from this is to just be honest with yourself like “Is this constant drama and am I sticking with it because on some level i like the drama or i'm afraid to be alone. What's going on here? God is talking to you.
The Second Sign That Someone Has Bad Intentions Is Narcissistic.
Dark Sign number two is narcissistic and only concerned with self in the past. I've had business relationships like this where I've always worked in teams. I've played sports my whole life, but there was this one guy that I used to work with, and it was just all about him.
The media takes all the credit and distributes all the blame, and complaints and acknowledgments only go one way. There is an epidemic of narcissism in our society. We all have our egos, but the way that the media has programmed us, and social media has programmed us, and Hollywood has programmed us, and advertising campaigns have programmed us, it's made us have a much higher percentage of people with like real, genuine, destructive, harmful narcissism. I can't say that you'll know when it crosses the line because we all have it right.
I have an ego, you have an ego, it shows up in relationships, it does, but there's a clinical level of it where it's in everything. It's all things. It's total narcissism and at that point it becomes actual uh harm. The best way to find out if this is if the person that you are really like on the clinical level of narcissism is how you feel afterwards if you spend a lot of time or you communicate a lot with this person, over 10 times, over 20 times, you've spent enough time to aggregate some data and some information and you still find that you are always tired, that is probably a sign they are soul-sucking energy. They are soul-sucking narcissists.
I can tell you from dealing with narcissists in the past, if every time you leave, you are never energized. If it's just like all the time your energy is sapped afterwards, then God's probably telling you that you're a narcissist.
The Third Sign That Someone Has Bad Intentions Is White Lies.
The number three sign is white lies at a constant pathological level. I used to date this woman when I was in high school, and she was a pathological liar. Not in a crazy destructive way where she'd steal ten thousand dollars from you and then tell you she didn't, but just literally about everything you know. I introduced her to a new friend, and then she said that she met the person through somebody else. I have these little things. I have this many dollars, but I'm going to tell everyone I have this many.
I put my right leg on in my pants first, but I'm going to tell everyone it's my left. My point is just literally everything you could possibly imagine telling yourself a small white lie about, and a lot of times for no reason whatsoever, and we all know some people like that. It may be a business partner, it could be a colleague, it could be a co-worker, it could be somebody you're in a relationship with, and they're so used to it that they say it all the time. What they're doing is trying to preserve their own identity. It becomes a self-protective mechanism for the ego for some people to essentially become pathological liars.
There's the really clinical level where you're like insane and you're like a menace to society, but there's also a lot of people that are borderline pathological liars that are just normal people that we interact with every single day and they lie about everything for no reason other than that they exaggerate everything. So the basis of what they say is real, but then they exaggerate every single thing that happens, so everything gets more of an extreme, so they're basically white lying about everything. If any of that is happening in your life regularly with somebody, it is probably a sign that God is telling you, hey, here's a sign. Step away step away warning Beep beep, hit the reverse. beep beep beep beep walk the other way. Often they don't stay as long, and this is a chance to walk away before the energy sucking continues if they're telling white lies about everything.
The Fourth Sign That Someone Has Bad Intentions Is Constant Fatigue.
Number four is diving deeper into what we were talking about earlier, which is constant fatigue after you're around them or when you're around them. We talked about how you're always tired. You're always tired. You feel sapped. You feel drained.
Well, getting to the core of why you continue to do it even though you know you feel drained afterwards, and that usually comes to self-guilt. I should spend time with this person, I need to spend time with this person and be mean. If I don't or I'm not good enough to get something better, whether it's a relationship right, then we settle in a relationship, which blocks us from attracting a better one in our romance. The most ideal
Boyfriend girlfriend husband wife soulmate is waiting for us to finally stop lowering our standards and to let go of this relationship that isn't meant to be and so there's guilt like guilt of what if i leave this person and i don't get anything better what if i'm not good enough when we're controlled by guilt what happens is that we do not live from our highest and best good and we trap ourselves into relationships that stunt
Our growth and the stunt to our progress I call "recyclable relationships." Recyclable relationships are when there's constant drama. As for sign number one, we talked about God's showing us that this is not ideal. This is a bad intentions relationship, either consciously or subconsciously, because there's constant drama. Number two is narcissism. They are narcissists. Everything is always about them, no matter what it can't not be about them. It is always about them.
Number three is white lies constantly or exaggerating everything constantly. Number four is constant fatigue after you are around them, which really gets to the core of the guilt or the shoulds about why I need to invest my time and energy into this thing that is not working.
The Fifth Sign That Someone Has Bad Intentions Is No Apology.
Number five is that they never apologize for anything. You always have to do it. It may be in business, romance, or love. You cannot have a relationship where one person is so attached to their own ego that they cannot apologize. I had an old, uh, business relationship where the person had all these other patterns. They created constant drama. They were narcissistic, they were negative, they were always telling white lies about everything and it was exhausting, and they also never apologized, even when I would call them out like an afraid child. Hey, what about this? You know, you said this, but i thought you said that no i'm right and they would never apologize, and when that happens in romance, when that happens with someone that you live with that you spend pretty much 365 days out of the year with, when this happens in business and you spend three, four, or five days a week working with a business partner, co-worker employee, it's probably a sign that this is only going to accumulate more of a negative energy vortex,
So those are five dark signs from God that someone has bad intentions, that someone is a negative energy. God is giving you these obvious, but sometimes we don't notice them, dark signs to maybe stay away from somebody or to leave something that's going on constant drama. Narcissism, white lies, constant fatigue run by guilt, and no apologies.